Wednesday, February 22, 2006

GUIDELINES OF FRIENDSHIP VERSUS RELATIONSHIP

GUIDELINES OF FRIENDSHIP VERSUS RELATIONSHIP – WHAT IS CROSSING THE LINE?

Defining the guidelines of a friendship versus a relationship and what is actually considered as ‘crossing the line’ can be a difficult distinction to make from both a male and female point of view. However, for guys it is generally accepted that sex is the crossing point. ‘Sex’- a la ‘I did not have sexual relations with that girl’- can be classified in varying degrees depending on the person you’re engaging with, i.e. snogging maybe just as dodgy as all out shagging.
Many a friendship has been destroyed by drunken or lustful interludes, however, lurking in the back of our minds is that extreme alternative of discovering your soul mate through this kind of behaviour, given that it is often regarded that your life partner should be your best friend who you enjoy shagging.
Personally, I have never hooked into a female friend. But I do have snuggle buddies.
What’s a Snuggle Buddy? Basically, it’s somebody you can walk along the beach with and hold their hand or cuddle watching a scary movie and can basically do anything with, because there is no ‘spark’ involved. You can still have feelings of love for a snuggle friend, but beware taking these things too far. Miscommunications often occur.
A snuggle buddy does sound good, but be warned, this can lead to the dangerous situation of a shag buddy. I’ve never had one of these and wouldn’t be able to – but in some rare situations carefree sex is an option that may be explored. Generally though it is unlikely for this to exist without one of the partners feeling something for the other or someone being taken advantage of.
It is hard to find your female friends attractive without wanting to go there - you can appreciate them and find their personalities beautiful – but as soon as you find them sexually attractive you are bound to get hurt if the other person does not want to go any further and this could jeopardise your future friendship. Tread carefully!
Above all else, I really believe that sex is always best when you are in love with that person and my advice to all of you is that if neither of you feels that way, perhaps you are wasting your time and should be with someone you do feel that way about.
At the end of the day it is a gamble and you should think wisely before trying anything with your mates – you could either find your soul mate and love of your life, or totally destroy a healthy friendship. If you are totally wicked mates you should be able to discuss anything including this sort of stuff. Be honest and don’t play games.
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" Best friends won't tell you "
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friendship vs love !!!!!

Friendship vs. Love

Friendship is a quiet walk in the park with the one you trust.
Love is when you feel like you are the only two around.
Friendship is when they gaze into your eyes and you know they care.
Love is when they gaze into your eyes and it warms your heart.
Friendship is being close even when you are far apart.
Love is when you can still feel their hand on your heart
when they are not near.
Friendship is hoping that they experience the very best.
Love is when you bring them the very best.
Friendship occupies your mind.
Love occupies your soul.
Friendship is knowing that you will always try to be there when in need.
Love is when you will give up everything to be at their side.
Friendship is a warm smile in the winter.
Love is a warming touch that sends a pulse through your heart.
Love is a beautiful smile to which nothing compares:
A tender laugh, which opens your heart, A single touch that melts away your fears, A smell that reminds you of the tenderness of heaven, A voice that reminds you of the innocence of youth.
Friendship can survive without love.
Love cannot live without friendship.
" unknown auther"
" The best Freinds won't tell you "

Nagaprathishte in NITK

Nagaprathishte in NITK


Last week there was a Brahmakalashotsava for "Nagabana" in NITK Surathkal. The festival went on for three days i.e 14-15-16 of Febrauray 2006. This festival was held because of some bad incidents that went on in NITK for previous 6 months, when people consulted astrologers about these incidents, it was said that the existing "Nagabana" be re-built in front of the PG Hostel. Accordingly a new place of worship was built in the said place, with places for Naga, Brahma, Nandi, Kshetrapala and Raktheshwari. Once the construction was over, the annoitance ceremony or the Brahmakalashotsava was performed on 16th. There was also a cultural activity function on 15th evening where Shri Vidyabhushan recited devotional songs. Some of the big names including the Director of NITK participated in the ceremony. Free meals in the form of prasadam was served to around 10000 people. The lunch was grand.
The non-teaching staffs' General union and Temporary staffs' union participated actively, many of the volunteers worked day and night for the succesful completion of the function. The function was completely succesful and went on without a hitch.




" Even your best friends won't tell you "

my first blog---

My frist blog.

Today 16 th december 2005, around 10.30 am. I was surfing in net and i saw a someone's blog page . suddenely my mind has changed and come with a new idea. why can't i start a blog!!!.
but i have some problems..... no , its not a problem. its a several questoins, like how to blog....?
what i suposs to write and much more. Most importantly am afraid to my poor english..
now i am just finished a one para of message. but you can't find any special in in this page.
as a beginer its a big challenge to publish this page.!!!!!